Dear Non-friend, While I am sure you do have so much more to share with me in life, I am no longer interested. The fact that you do not seem to understand how your betrayal affects me and that I… Read More »Dear ex-friend who betrayed me

It really happened. My good friend disrespected my wife thoroughly, over the course of an afternoon. It was a shock to witness. Needless to say, these situations are difficult. Here is what I have to say to him. Dear Friend,… Read More »My Friend Disrespected my Wife

There is a place outside of time where everything becomes one, the eternal moment. All perception blends together; the inside, the outside, images, conversations, feelings…ad infinitum plus the kitchen sink – meld together into a singular experience – the eternal… Read More »Hello from the Eternal Moment

Organizing my thoughts here on invisible forces. They exist per the results they produce. Whether they arise from existing entities or are independently operational is a practically pointless point. Invisible forces behave the same way regardless of origin. We will… Read More »Psychology of invisible forces

Don’t you love it when you assume the worst isn’t going to happen? Well, it is. You’re gonna die, which for most people is worse than living in abject misery. Yes, the worst is going to happen to you. Next… Read More »It’s not gonna happen to me (yes it is)

There it isForbidden fruitI don’t want it!I want it I partakeAnd liveWith inevitableShame I am shameI seek myself

This is a great rule for living. Don’t do anything that you’ll regret. So simple. So challenging for so many. if you struggle with regretful decisions, large or small, you are not alone. The idea here is that you want… Read More »Don’t do anything that you will regret later

When you’ve lost significant things that were once the centerpiece of your life, you’re qualified to rebuild yourself. Not before the loss, however. You wouldn’t need to do so and couldn’t conceive the project regardless. For people who were raised… Read More »How to Rebuild yourself at Midlife

You don’t know me. You do not know what I’ve been through. Even if you’ve been through worse, you still don’t know what I’ve been through. And you don’t know how I process what I’ve been through. You don’t know… Read More »Nice to meet you